Freida Jorheim
Obituary
Passed on
1931-2026
It is with great sadness that the family announces the passing of Freida Jorheim on October 20, 2026 at the Selkirk Regional Health Centre.
Left to cherish her memory are her children Alvin, Heather (Rob) and Marilyn (Murrey) and her grandchildren Alex, Jacob (Shayla) and Matthew, along with her sisters-in-law Vivian, Margy, Alma and Violet, and numerous nieces, nephews and their families.
She was predeceased by her father John in 1939, mother Flossie in 1997, husband Bert in 1993 and two infant children. She was also predeceased by her siblings Florence, Donald, Russell, Buddy, Arthur, and Sylvia.
Freida was born on the family farm on May 11, 1931. Despite growing up during the Depression, she had many fond memories of those early years. Her education began in nearby Rondeau School, where she later taught and then worked diligently to preserve and maintain after the school was closed. She was also the driving force behind the annual Rondeau picnic. She went on to Tuxedo Normal School in Winnipeg to obtain her teaching certificate and taught for a number of years.
She married Bert in 1954 and they settled on a farm together near Inwood to build their family. As her children grew, she became involved in the Home and School Association, the Figure Skating Club and the 4H Club. Her connection to Inwood School through substituting and volunteering led to her meaningful 32-year career as a Child Development Worker in the Teulon Day Care and throughout the Interlake. The impact of her work was evident, as many of the children she worked with would reconnect with her as they became adults.
Freida’s involvement in numerous projects and her service with many community organizations continued throughout her life. This dedication led to her receiving the Queen’s Diamond Jubilee Medal in 2013, and the Lieutenant Governor’s Award for historical preservation in 2014.
Freida loved spending time with friends and family, and was especially proud of her grandchildren, involving them in many of the activities she enjoyed – working in the garden, picking berries, baking, canning, playing cards with friends and going to old-time dances.
At the age of 70, Freida purchased a computer and wrote her mother’s story, which has been cherished by the family. She also published three children’s books with the help of her good friend and companion, Ed. She eventually moved to Gateway Manor in Teulon and made many good friends there, and then spent her final months in Betel Care Home in Selkirk.
Ever the teacher, she continued to share her skills to the benefit of others and enjoyed working on her own life story and her needlework. Freida’s love of people and making friends lasted her whole life, and the family is deeply grateful to the many home care, hospital, and care home workers who shared a special connection with her in her later years. She lived a big life in a small town, and her loss will be felt across the community she loved, but her legacy will live on in the many lives she touched.
A memorial service will be held on Thursday, November 5th at 2pm at the Inwood Memorial Hall. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Hillside Memorial Garden in Inwood.
Comments
Freida was a very special person and truly made a difference in so many children's lives. She will never be forgotten and missed by many. Sending love to family and everyone who loved her.
Lana Knor
My mother Jeanie held Freida in the highest regard, both as a teacher and as a lifelong friend. I will always remember the warmth and affection they shared. Freida's kindness and friendship meant a great deal to our family, and she will be remembered with much fondness and gratitude. My heartfelt condolences to the family.
Chantal Skogan
Dear Family, My sincerest condolences on the passing of Frieda. She had the soul to touch everyone in her special way. I am personally grateful for all she did for my children, for without her we wouldn't have been able to get the proper or necessary help needed. She will be fondly remembered by me and my family. RIP Frieda 💕 Marla Yankech
Marla
Thank you Auntie Freida for the wonderful memories I will hold close to my heart. As a young child, I will always remember the warm and welcoming smile whenever we visited the farm. In recent adult years, we connected on a level of shared teaching experiences and I will treasure our talks on our mutual love of literature. I didn’t realize she had published books and purchased (and have signed editions!) of her three children’s books for my grandchildren. ‘The Spider who went to Church’ is my oldest grandson’s favourite and constantly requested! My heartfelt condolences to all of you. When I think of your Mom, I will forever remember her beautiful smile and her gentle laugh. May she rest in the loveliness of one. ❤️ Valerie
Valerie (Barker) Smith
While I dont remember the exact year Freida came into my life, she instantly filled a void left recently by the loss of both of my grandmothers. She was always naturally authentic and could disarm anyone with her kindness. She is a soul that you couldnt help but cherish like just being around her was something to be grateful for. You knew you were around someone special and everyone could see it. She relentlessly lead by example without even trying. Always expressing herself whether through cooking, writing or just talking with you. She always made you feel like you mattered in that moment. If our loved ones live on through us through their good qualities, Frieda gave all of us endless qualities to choose from. Shes one of those rare souls that do not come around often and you cant help but just be in aware and appreciation of for being lucky enough to have been around. I am grateful to have known her and will hold her family endlessly in the highest regards because of how much I appreciated her and her impact on me.
Collin Reid
Freida will be sorely missed by Dave and I. She was a very special lady with a nack for making everyone or anyone feel special and cared for. Coming to know her as my Dad's companion was a blessing and as time passed she was like a step mother. I know Ed, dad, will be happy to meet with her again in heaven. Freida will forever hold a place in our hearts as she was truly loved. Our heart felt condolences we send to her adult children Alvin, Heather, and Marilyn . Love Camille and Dave Giesbrecht
Camille Giesbrecht
Condolences to the family. I will cherish lots of great memories of Freida. She is gone now and will not be forgotten. Violet Barker
Violet Barker
Our condolences to the family. There are many memories over ther years we will cherish.
Violet Gilson and family
Though I didn't know Frieda for long, seeing how many lives she has touched does not surprise me one bit. She had a heart of gold and was easy to form a connection with. I am grateful to have been her nurse.
Nicole Iwaszewski
Like countless others, I’m blessed to have known Freida as a little kid and then later having the chance to excitedly introduce her to my own kids, because she was simply one of the best. Her legacy will continue in our memories and in her written works. My condolences to her family.
Alan Campbell
Throughout my life I have had many (many, many) teachers and I can say that Freida was the most gifted and caring one of all. Now that I am a teacher myself, I hold her in my heart as a role model, hoping to give my students a bit of everything she gave me.
Linda Olson
To the Family of Freida, I have fond memories of Freida as a young girl living in Inwood. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Cousin. Jane Hicks
Jane Hicks
Your mom was always so interesting and knowledgeable. And she truly was a pleasure to visit and talk with… She was a great role model and an inspiration to us all, and our family will miss her. Our condolences to all of you. Peggy and Al
Peggy Mccarthy
Your mom left an amazing legacy and will be missed by a world that she made a better place. Out heartfelt condolences and love to your family. - Naomi, Darren, and family
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