On Thursday, April 27, 2023, the world lost an amazing man… Wes transcended from his 6 month battle with cancer, never once giving up his hope of living.
Remaining to carry on his unwavering beliefs for life’s journey, are his soulmate J’aime, who he loved like no other, and their two beautiful children, Easton and Tamsen. With broken hearts, he leaves his parents, Carol and Tom(Bud) Killbery, and his sister Jill Demianiw,(Kevin), and niece Whitney. He will be missed and lovingly remembered by his Nanny Ann Killbery, and Grandpa Gordon McDonnell. Also deeply saddened are his in-laws, Bev and Cam Ballantyne, more affectionately known as Mom ”B” and Dad “B”, and their children Colin (Deana), Brad (Kerry), Jocelyn (Sean), and Nicole. Mourning also are many nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles, cousins and friends.
Wes was predeceased by his Grandpa Wayne Killbery, his Grandma Gladys McDonnell, and uncle’s Doug McDonnell, and Russ Killbery.
Wes was larger than life since birth. Born and raised in Teulon, Manitoba. Wes played every sport, and became a vibrant part of his community life in every way, whether it was school events, peers, sports, neighbours, reffing or coaching. Wes’s working career began at Canadian Tire, moving later to Oak Hammock Marsh where he became an expert on all birds, a knowledge which he insisted on sharing! He spent enjoyable time working respite, within the community which he thoroughly enjoyed. These invaluable relationships led him to begin working at Balmoral School and Stonewall Collegiate, where he made many friends and lasting impressions with the students. The past 15 years Wes had settled in to a happy career with Manitoba Hydro where he made many friends.
Wes’s passion was his love of sports. Throughout his school years he won many athletic awards, and carried on his competitive passion for the game of hockey into his adolescence becoming well known for his “golden gloves” as a leading goal scorer. He was branded by a local radio station out of Thompson, Manitoba a “killerbee”, a name which Wes has carried throughout his life, regardless of the sport! This name has now jumped a generation, and his son Easton proudly answers to this nickname in his own sports! He began his coaching career with his Dad, at the young age of 16, and continuing throughout the years, until he had the ultimate pleasure of coaching his own kids.
Wes initially met J’aime at the Stonewall Arena, and was able to coax her into a first date at Boston Pizza. They have spent an amazing 16 years together ever since.
Wes was a man totally devoted to family and community. He volunteered on multiple boards, always giving back to his community. The amount of volunteer hours he dedicated is too many to count.
Wes treated everyone with respect and kindness, always offering a smile at every encounter. He had an infectious laugh, which he shared very willingly, always putting others before himself. He was an honourable man with a loving soul, with so much more to give.
To celebrate Wes’s life, there will be a gathering at the Stonewall Veterans Memorial Sports Complex on Thursday, May 18th at 2:00 pm. Everyone is encouraged to wear their favorite team jersey, and carry along their favorite Yeti, in honour of Wes’s love of sport.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Lung Cancer Research Foundation.
In closing, the family would like to thank many people. First and foremost, Dr. Banerji and his team from HSC for providing Wes amazing care, as well as the wonderful nursing staff, especially Wes’s favorite, Nurse May. We are beyond grateful for the support over the last 6 months from community, family, and friends. This includes the many meals, rides, visits, phone calls, and donations. A special thanks to the Stonewall and Teulon Minor Hockey Boards and organizers for the fundraisers in Wes’s honour. Thank you to the many people who attended and donated. We are forever grateful.
We would like to share Wes’s favourite quote in life…
“Good things happen to good people”
…something we can all strive for….